What to discuss on a first date

For most of us, a first date is usually very important as it serves as a platform for a new relationship. What you do on your first date usually acts as a pace setter for the remainder of the relationship. If you have met your partner on an online dating site, it is always good to ensure that your relationship begins on a high note.


If you have been communicating with your partner on a dating site for some time, you should by now be more comfortable discussing some certain topics with them. Basically by now you should have known a lot of information about them such as their interests, hobbies and even personality.


While on a first date, always come up with interesting topics to discuss so that you keep the date enjoyable and alive. It is always good to dwell on different topics and avoid sticking to one subject for the entire date. Since by this time you have already known each other for some time, it should be much easier to strike up a conversation and keep it going.


If you discover that you have nothing much to talk about with your partner, it might signal that you are not so compatible with them. A relationship without communication can never survive, it is therefore always good to ensure that both you and your partner enjoy free flowing conversations.


Good topics to discuss on a first date would be hobbies and interests, family background, education, culture, sports, work history and generally anything that excites both of you. It is always better to avoid controversial and sensitive topics such as religion, sex and past relationships. These topics should be saved for a later day.


Remember that for your relationship to keep going, whatever happens on your first date will always determine the direction a relationship takes.